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Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Relationships

why do people get into a relationship?
to feel comfort?
to feel safe?
or is it just so that there is somebody there for them when they need?
if so..what are friends for?
some people get into relationships for the right reasons..
some the wrong reasons..
but how do we know what is right and what is wrong?
do we use personal opinions to judge?
or do we use moral and ethics?
i guess it really depends on the type of person that is getting into a relationship doesn't it?
if you like the person you will support them..
if you don't..then you won't support them..
but hey..we all have people we don't like and people that we like and those in between
(this post is going to be filled with random thoughts everywhere so if you don't enjoy reading random thoughts please stop reading...just a warning =])
to those people that we like, we will help them, support them, guide them through
to those we don't like we will ignore, disapprove of their relationship ya da ya da you get the point i'm trying to make here
but what is the main factor that causes people to want to start a relationship?
i have a girlfriend
the reason i decided to ask her out is..i really don't know..
you can question me as to why i don't know..but i just don't..
i can tell you i asked her out because i didn't want to lose a friend like her
but then you could argue that there are many friends that are nice, special, hard to come by..whatever it is..
there is just something about a specific person that you just want to keep to yourself and not share them with anybody else..
those that get into a relationship just for kicks or experimentation are those that i hate a lot..
why do it?
you're either going to end up hurting yourself..the other person or both of you
it's not good path to walk..so why do it?
i guess you're just dumb or never gone down this road before..if you are a virgin to relationships then i don't blame you..if you have done it before then i will hate you..and so will many others
i have a guy friend..that got together with a girl friend..they were happy for 6 months?
give or take..
anyway..one is chinese and one is malay..yes we can already see the problem here
but hey..who am i to stop someone from loving someone else?
their parents will do that just fine..
that guy is now with another girl..but i don't think he has 100% forgotten about the malay girl..
this is where the issue hits..
the girl he is with now is chinese but the thing is..he is a control freak
(i have jumped around with my thoughts..i apologise...)
and we all hate control freaks..
and they ended up on a break..cause one isn't committed and the other one..well i do not know what is going on..
maybe i should try vloging..save sometime of typing and i think i place my thoughts in better order..im chinese and i like to talk..so yea...im just going to stop now...cause i know i'm not making any sense anymore...

CY
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